Online course for therapists working with ADHD couples—tools to repair relationships and improve communication.

DIY*ADHD: Couples is your introduction to ADHD-Adapted

Relational Therapy (AaRT) for Couples. 


AaRT (formally called AECT) helps couples therapists learn how to identify ADHD, understand its impact in couples therapy in particular, and confidently integrate ADHD-adapted treatment into their chosen couples’ therapy modality.

ADHD can be difficult to identify due to its heterogeneity. 

There is a lot of information (and misinformation!) to sift through, and it can be difficult to know where to turn for credible information. It's also challenging to find therapeutic experts with significant clinical experience.

Couple therapists can feel uncertainty about why therapy wasn't helpful for a couple - was it the modality? the couple? the therapist? the setting?

They might experience a loss of confidence, and ultimately pull away from helping myriad couples or families that need them. 




Why ADHD Matters


ADHD is missed in couple's therapy largely because it is still significantly under-recognized, under-diagnosed, and under-treated amoung adults globally.

  • The heritability of ADHD, combined with the under-diagnosed and under-treated context, means people with ADHD have also been found to be more vulnerable to developmental or childhood and attachment trauma.


  • Adults with ADHD report less stability in their love relationships, feel less able to provide emotional support to their loved ones, experienced more sexual dysfunction, and have higher divorce rates.


  • Unmanaged ADHD is a risk factor for dating violence, family violence, infidelity, high conflict divorce, and adults with ADHD report lower marital satisfaction than their non-ADHD peers.


A couple with undiagnosed (or diagnosed, but unmanaged) ADHD within the dynamic, has this as a major feature that sets them apart: The reason these couples cannot be treated the same as 'neurotypical' couples is the behaviour of the undiagnosed partner(s) is being largely driven by invisible and involuntary brain function, rather than by choice or trauma.



This course allows you to:

  1. Identify the involuntary brain-driven behaviours commonly challenging the couples therapeutic process, 
  2. How to integrate relational neurobiology into your chosen couples therapy modality through AECT Model of Practice: ADHD Experiential Couples Therapy. 
  3. How to coordinate care with other practitioners confidently and 
  4. How to provide hope for the future, anchored in science and healthy attachment.

The Benefits

  • Neurodivergent-affirming and LGBTQ+-affirming,
  • Downloadable Intake and Case Note templates
  • A Course Workbook, handouts and a resource list for further study,
  • Eligibility for 5 OAMHP CEC’s hours, toward required continuing education requirements,
  • Lifetime access
  • Counts toward the upcoming DALD Canadian ADHD Certified Practitioner designation


Couples’ therapists will come away with a renewed confidence in identifying a truly solvable problem that is a significant unmet need within the couple and family therapy demographics.

Participants will also be able to articulate a vision of hope for couples and families, based on current science and what we know is possible. 

Who should take this course?

  • Couple Therapists,
  • Therapists who work with individuals struggling with their relationships,
  • Family therapists,
  • Therapists who work with parents, co-parents, blended family dynamics
  • Clinical Supervisors
  • Social Workers
  • ADHD Coaches





Choose a Pricing Option


Are you a mental health

professional?

Participation in this workshop allows OAMHP members to apply for 5 Continuing Education Credit hours, towards their required continuing education requirements.

OAMHP’s review of the general content of this workshop recognizes the learning objectives meet and support the criteria (1) for best known practice in continuing education and (2) for educational requirements for mental health professionals.

Course Authors

With over a combined decade and hundreds of clients, John and Christina have put together a course that pulls together the best of the current science, experiential couples modalities and the adaptions that really work for neurodivergent couples.

John Foulkes, BSc., OPC-D Psych, CPCC, RP, OVCS, (Cert.) IPT (he, him) is psychodynamically trained and certified in EFT, IPT, Reality/Choice Therapy. John is an EFT Couples Therapist and provides individual and group supervision for Couples therapists.

Christina Crowe, MACP, RP, OVCS, CMHP (she, heris a neurodivergent-affirming Registered Psychotherapist, Certified IPT Therapist and Validated Clinical Supervisor. Christina works with individuals (ages 16+), couples and families.